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  • Jenniferrr [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    I think there’s another thread about this but I’m queer spaces people will generally they/them you anyway regardless of how clearly you are presenting fem until it’s clear. I am, I think, somewhat clearly a she/her but I always get they them’d (and he him’d by cis people -.-)

    • BountifulEggnog [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      Yes, I had just come from that thread. Its what upset me. I know (at least for some/most) people its not a personal thing, but it still hurts. That I could really try, and people will see that and still they/them an obvious trans girl. idk, I get it (about enbies especially) but… I don’t know. Still makes me sad.

      Oh and also people who they/them only trans people but have no problem with cis people’s pronouns.