It’s normal to be confused by new labels and I personally don’t believe microlabels will survive long term. But nobody gets hurt by them if we don’t use them to isolate us. Being disrespectful to people for trying to communicate solves nothing.

If you believe asexual/greysexual/whatever people would benefit from your community, calling them “idiotic” won’t convince them.

Also, let’s remember that labels change across time and places.