Spongebobsquarejuche [none/use name]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · edit-216 hours agoWhat did I miss?hexbear.netexternal-linkmessage-square49fedilinkarrow-up183arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up183arrow-down1external-linkWhat did I miss?hexbear.netSpongebobsquarejuche [none/use name]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · edit-216 hours agomessage-square49fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareButtBidet [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up36·11 hours agoThings are so much easier when one has the “I don’t want to make other people feel uncomfortable” principal. I don’t pretend to be some perfect guy, but I don’t recall being “given sharp, disapproving looks” in at least a decade if not much longer.
minus-squareDragonBallZinn [he/him]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up13·8 hours agoIt’s always pretty sus when discussing this, if they paint themselves as the REAL victims. If they mentioned that as you said, they don’t want people to feel uncomfortable, then that’s totally forgivable.
Things are so much easier when one has the “I don’t want to make other people feel uncomfortable” principal.
I don’t pretend to be some perfect guy, but I don’t recall being “given sharp, disapproving looks” in at least a decade if not much longer.
It’s always pretty sus when discussing this, if they paint themselves as the REAL victims. If they mentioned that as you said, they don’t want people to feel uncomfortable, then that’s totally forgivable.