Bonus points if it’s usually misused/misunderstood by the people who say it

    • Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      67
      ·
      1 year ago

      Or worse: “it’s all part of God’s plan!” every time something bad happens. “So… God’s a sadist, or what? Cuz his plan is shit.”

      • TechyDad@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        17
        ·
        1 year ago

        Or the related one: “I’d like to thank God for coming through this surgery.”

        What about the doctors, nurses, and various other staff members?

        • Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          17
          ·
          1 year ago

          As a surgical tech, I have to bite my tongue when this pops up. Like… bitch, your god sent you to the OR in the first place - you should be pissed!

          • AnIntenseMoist@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            4
            arrow-down
            1
            ·
            1 year ago

            Hear me out on this: God is creating jobs for the community. If there weren’t stupid people around to get hurt, the smart ones wouldn’t have anything to do!

      • starman2112@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        ·
        1 year ago

        Or he sucks so bad at planning that he can’t make people happy without also hurting others.

        “But happiness would be meaningless without sadness to compare it to!”

        Bitch were you never happy before you learned what cancer was? Did you start enjoying life the moment you figured out what rape is? “Boy I sure am glad I’m not being raped today! Much happier than I would be if I didn’t know there was an alternative!”

      • mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        5
        ·
        1 year ago

        I hate this phrase so, so much. Sometimes babies die within days of being born with no chance of getting baptized. Don’t people realize that the implication of this is that God is dooming them to purgatory just to spite the parents? Do they not Pealize how fucked up that sounds?

      • EnchiladaHole@kbin.social
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        ·
        1 year ago

        or when someone gets the benefit of excellent medical care and thanks God for it. ugh. A lifetime of dedication by the doctors and scientists that brought you this cure? A distant second place.

      • NOT_RICK@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        God did ruin Job’s life over a bet with Satan so maybe this is less of a plan and more of a downward spiral gambling addiction

    • dreadgoat@kbin.social
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      19
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      edit-2
      1 year ago

      I actually love this one, because it’s technically correct but not in the way people who use it mean, so you can turn it around easily.

      Yes, you did get cancer for a reason. Because you insisted on maintaining your suntan every winter. Or perhaps merely because you pissed off the wrong banana.

      • baggachipz@kbin.social
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        ·
        1 year ago

        In my case, it was through no action of my own and merely bad luck. So the only “reason” would be bad luck or a shitty all-powerful deity.