People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life

Doesn’t matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.

  • Lvxferre
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    2 months ago

    Sometimes it’s fine to be annoying. But only sometimes.

    • TonyOstrich@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Oh I’m well aware. Unfortunately I have far more control over how useful I am than how annoying I am 😅

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        2 months ago

        My sides went into orbit. Specially because I’m aware that I’m often annoying, too. And… yeah, it’s hard to control it, I know, fair point!