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  • yewler [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    2 months ago

    My libido is basically zero and nothing has changed on that front, but after realizing that I’m not aromantic, I just don’t want to date as a guy, I was watching a movie with a scene of romantic intimacy, and it clicked in my brain. “OH! that’s why people bang! Emotional intimacy!” Which is something I knew conceptually, but that was the first time I actually understood. And for the first time ever I thought “you know what that could actually be kinda nice.”

    I’m so curious what is gonna happen if/when I get my ass on hrt.

    • LocalOaf [they/them, ze/hir]@hexbear.net
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      2 months ago
      sexual, not explicit but just general libido stuff

      Prior to starting hrt, my libido was like an annoying physical chore I just had to occasionally deal with, like being busy and realizing you haven’t eaten and then getting food becomes a chore

      Afterwards I’ve actually been able to enjoy it sometimes, being more in tune with your body really allows you to actually be sensual and connect with a partner more

      (and hrt added some new erogenous areas lea-blush )