So growing up, I had this idea that the American dream was about that if you put in an honest amount of work, you would be rewarded with a good life. This would mean you would be able to take care of yourself and your family, afford a car and a house. In my view, working one job would probably be enough.
Nowadays, I get the idea that the American dream has become about working your ass off in order to have a chance to become a millionaire. Somehow glorifying “the grind” appears to be a part of it too now.
The American dream is essentially trying to tell people that the United States is a meritocratic society. The more work you put in the more you get out. However, I’m sure most of us know this isn’t true. Where you were born and what family you were born into is the primary factor in determining someone’s success. So you grow up hearing stories of “hard working” billionaires and think “I can make it there if I work hard” while ignoring your family who worked their asses off and got nowhere. You see more of the lie of meritocracy as you age. People around you work hard and fail, you might succeed with less effort or fail with more. The idiotic decisions of today’s billionaires solidifies the notion that the American dream never existed and was fabricated to get people to work more for less in the hopes that one day they will make it. In reality, it all comes down to the zip code you were born in.
Check, the American dream of 1-2% is the American nightmare for more then 75%. (And probably just a disappointment for the rest)
As usual, Carlin said it best. “It’s called the American Dream because you gotta be asleep to believe it.”
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Wealthy people don’t allow their kids to fail. They bail them out with money.
Glorifying “the grind” is a toxic coping mechanism for dealing with the fact that our grandparents’ generation got what they were promised and pulled up the ladder behind them, leaving the rest of us behind in debt and on fire. People glorify working themselves to death because they cannot bring themselves to accept things like it should not be this way and does not have to be, or you are just as much a victim of the 1% as whoever it is you’ve been taught to look down upon. It’s taking advantage of the psychological need for self-assurance and a vague sense of superiority, but ultimately it’s propaganda to keep the poor in line.
No matter how hard you “grind,” if you are not self-employed you are always making orders of magnitude more money for someone else than you are for yourself. If you are self-employed, it’s still true, but to a lesser degree.
Well said.
Took me a while to recognize the instilled behavior, and even longer to unwind the tendrils and it’s effects on my life in general. Capitalism has instilled a martyr complex into us.
I am a go where the wind blows kind of person and settled on working for myself. Much out of necessity as well, cause a company would absolutely not hire me anymore. I am still “poor”, but I make my own schedule at least. If I’m gonna get fucked, I’d like to choose how.
Reganonomics
One of the most destructive lies ever foisted upon humanity…
Something is definitely trickling down on us and it certainly isn’t wealth.
Now referred to as Bidenomics
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Biden is Reagan’s 11th term. But go on believing the gaslighting that the economy is doing well.
Who said anything about the economy doing well? You do know you don’t have to show everyone how stupid you are
The Biden administration and himself keep telling us how great things are, wages up, unemployment down, the world is on fire but you are doing great. I, and most other people don’t believe it
I think you made a typo *Trumpenomics
If you didn’t know he’s been gone 3 years, Trump was Reagan’s 10th term and Biden is his 11th
Here’s the whole story in a nutshell.
WW2. Government imposes strict wage and price controls and pushes unions. Capital falls in line because they are makign money hand over fist.
Post WW2 the USA keeps a lot of FDR’s New Deal policies in place and everyone is doing great. In 1960, minimum wage was $1.00/hour and the price of the average home was $11,000.00. Unions are strong and college is cheap.
- LBJ decides that the low level fighting in Vietnam has gone on too long. He decides to go for a massive push to knock out the Commies. Turns into a quagmire and he realizes he’s screwed. He didn’t want to raise taxes, so he prints money instead. By 1968 people are starting to notice.
1968, Nixon becomes President. Says he wants peace, but increases the War spending using LBJ’s print money plan. Inflation is now a thing.
1970s Oil Embargo really devastates the economy. Prices skyrocket and inflation is getting worse.
- Reagan elected. Giant tax cuts for the wealthy and cuts for the poor. Homelessness is now a thing.
Before Reagan is elected, Middle Class is defined as one income supporting a family of four. $1 million is a vast fortune.
By the time Bush Sr. leaves office, ‘middle class’ is two incomes, and $1 million is what a rich guy pays for a party.
Further, the prosperity of past generations was in the wake of WWII and destroyed economies around the world. The US was virtually untouched and had a boom-time that is unrealistic under any other circumstances. The US literally started on third base and our parents or grandparents thought they hit a triple.
I didn’t get into it in my nutshell, but Nixon’s Vietnam policy had a bonus. Because we were making so many bombs, the US steel mills couldn’t keep up with the demand from Japan and Germany. they ended up building their own plants, plants that were much more modern and used less energy. When the Oil Boycott hit, the cheap foreign cars were in high demand and Detroit was left scrambling. After the Vietnam War ended, the US had old, worn out infrastructure in the ‘Rust Belt.’
The American dream has been slipping out of reach gradually since the 80s, but people just keep hoping real hard about it; poll done about a year ago shows that close to half of Americans think they’ll be billionaires one day.
Edit: The poll more accurately says nearly half of Americans think it’s possible they’ll be billionaires. Which is, for all practical purposes, no less wrong.
That’s actually insane. I’d love to see it broken down by party affiliation as well.
Aka people who don’t realize how much a billion dollars is and what you have to do to get it. That is, have rich parents, to start with.
What’s the difference between a Million and a Billion?
About a Billion
Nonsense. If you can save even $1 per day, after a mere 1 billion days you’ll be a billionaire! Anyone can achieve that if they put their mind to it!
Which is more true by the year. Economic policy in the US and (to a slower extent) Europe has been shifting toward letting the rich horde wealth and away from new wealth being created, again since the 80s.
Interesting source, thanks!
That is not what the poll said. 44% agreed with the statement “I believe I have the available tools to become a billionaire in the future” which is not the same thing. I believe I have the tools available to me to build a yacht, it doesn’t mean I believe that is likely to happen.
the dream is well and alive for those in the top 10%. They are the ones who are culturally dominate. All the writers in the media, etc. As well as the doctors, lawyers, business people, etc. They live in a exclusive bubble and they don’t associate with the bottom 90%.
They see the rest of us as just lazy idiots who should have ‘worked harder’ like they did, by having parents that can afford to pay for your housing and education into adulthood.
That explains all the writers for popular TV, movies, and book series who are living in quads eating ramen in the their 30s. The reason there’s massive a doctors shortage is because people with money don’t want to go into a low paying position, and people without money can’t afford to make $30k year during their residency as their student loans go into repayment. The only way to become rich as a doctor now is to patent something, which is not why most people become doctors. Lawyers who make top sums all come from 16ish very expensive schools and are often legacies. And the gold rush of getting into tech companies and then falling into success is almost entirely over. If you’re not born wealthy there are fewer opportunities every day to change that.
“We don’t see any American dream; we’ve experienced only the American nightmare.”
--Malcolm X, 1964
So no, it’s not the American Dream that changed recently but your perception. The American Dream has been a fairy tale to keep the masses in line with some vague promise of success if they only work hard enough for a very long time if not forever.
I get the impression that it’s always had enough different definitions that it’s basically been a meaningless term.
The American dream has always been a fiction for huge segments of the population.
What we’re talking about, technically, is the idea of meritocracy. If you work hard and smart, you should thrive. If you are dumb and lazy, you should flounder.
But that is not at all the case in the United States.
We have smart people working 2 or 3 jobs only to barely stay afloat, and we have morons sitting on mountains of money.
Briefly in our history we had a strong middle class. The Greatest Generation built it, wrestling wealth away from the top 1% with strong unions. Then they handed it over to the Boomers, who pissed it all away, and destroyed the power of organized labor.
Boomers inherited a nice system, but refused to fight to expand it. The 5-day work week, for example, was supposed to be just a stepping stone. The people who originally fought to get it would have never believed we hadn’t gotten that number any lower 80 years later.
Boomers allowed the minimum wage to stagnate. They allowed pensions to go extinct. They voted time and again against universal healthcare. They did nothing to stop predatory lending. They did nothing to stop the explosion of tuition prices. They did nothing to make social security viable for future generations.
The stupidity, gullibility, self-entitlement, laziness, greed, hypocrisy, and frankly psychopathic governance of the Boomers has essentially wiped out all the progress that came before them.
They are retaining a death grip on their power, and have used it to give us a choice between a Trump cult, and Democratic party that is virtually indistinguishable from 1980s Republicans.
Oh, and when they found out that they were killing the planet, they just stepped on the gas and killed it faster.
So, yeah, the American Dream, if it ever really existed, is absolutely dead right now.
When the boomers are all gone, the voting power of millennials and gen z might have been able to fix things … But honestly, we’re riding the razor’s edge with fascism right now, so it’s a coin flip whether or not we’ll even have a democracy with which to repair things.
Sadly enough the answer right now is to keep voting for the Democratic Party candidates and wait for the Boomers to age out.
If the Republican Party ever escapes its fascist fever dream or a new party takes their place, we should start looking at alternatives to voting Democrat.
PS - my theory about the Boomers is that lead poisoning brain damage explains most of their bullshit.
PS - my theory about the Boomers is that lead poisoning brain damage explains most of their bullshit.
An episode of Last Podcast on the Left advanced a similar idea regarding serial killers.
Sure, we know the new highway system enabled travel that enabled serial killers. Sure, we know the improved investigative techniques and technology make it harder to get away with serial murder. But I couldn’t dismiss their take that serial killing was at its height in the 70s and 80s (and early 90s) and that leaded gas also fits nicely into that timeline.
I think Bernie Sanders and Donald Trump both illustrated that radically changing the Overton window is best done from within the established parties.
Bernie pulled the Democrats pretty far to the right of where they were, even in defeat.
And Trump … Well, I mean, he transformed his party into a cult.
I think glorifying the grind has come naturally along with most people not being able to afford all of the previous generation’s big landmark goals like homes and things.
Kind of like how the move towards more employment options for women naturally came with the death of the single-earner household.
capitalism happened.
Employers discovered they could pay you less if they kept dangling the Dream in front of you, and yet you’d work twice as hard. Profits ahoy!
It was stolen by the boomers, Reaganomics, citizens united and all the other policies that turned this country into corporate socialism.
Absolutely.
Boomers were born into a country that handed them everything. You could walk into a factory, tell the manager you were looking for a job, share a handshake, and walk out with a unionized position, where you would make good money with great job security for the next several decades.
Then these clowns told themselves that they were rich and successful because of their own hard work. And they pulled the ladder up behind them.
It never occurred to them that their parents worked harder for less, and in a million years they won’t acknowledge that their kids have it harder, work smarter and longer hours for way less.
We’re in a second Gilded Age. Things will not change until the mega corps are broken apart again and taxes go up on the mega rich.
The Hollywood strikes are a good example — they’re fighting over residuals (scraps), but they should be fighting over a handful of companies owning the production studio + the programming + the streaming channel + the cable channel + the broadcast channel + the internet service + the set top box. It’s basically the pre-1940s studio system all over again. All of these outlets should be separate to introduce competition, and allow people to shop their work to multiple vendors.
That’s basically what I was raised to believe too. The American Dream is supposed to be a house, a car, a family and a good job. But at some point, that did change to ‘you could be rich like them one day’ and I’m not sure when.
It was a slow message delivered once wealth inequality started ramping up. It’s a good way to pacify stupid people who are poor.
Billionaires: “Don’t tax us heavily, otherwise you will have massive taxes once you’re also a millionaire”
That’s just Instagram. The american dream, which is to be a company man and work the same job til youre 65 and live in a house with a nice yard and 2 cars and all that is still around, it’s just out of reach for most people whereas it wasn’t a generation or two ago.
I think the American dream implied that if you put in honest hard work you could be successful.
I found that personally true for myself, transcending from low income to being a millionaire in my 30s. But I know that it has not worked out for some.
Factors that complicated this are numerous. Some are obvious such as the globalizing economy, as well as the increased deviousness of the ultra wealthy in their ability to influence public policy.
One factor I feel like we don’t discuss enough is just the heightened potency and addictiveness that we are able to market and manufacture products. It’s so targeted now that to me it seems that we are preying on the low income and draining them of their wealth by convincing them to spend money frivolously.
The last sentence, I think youre right. Well, not “we” I’m not, but some people are.
When politicians talk about stimulating the economy, stimulating spending, that’s what they’re talking about: incentivize everyone to blow their money and save nothing. Then when it’s time to get elected they say things like “most people can’t afford a $500 emergency without going into debt!”
To live the American dream, move to Scandinavia.
Sweden used to be fantastic but its not anymore. Too much crime and immigration issues. And incompetent / evil government, we have like 12% inflation.
I think Norway is the best place now.
Sure, Norway, Denmark, Finland, Iceland are all great.
Sweden still has a very low crime rate compared to the US. Not even comparable. Also have extensive social services available to everyone that Americans can only dream of.
Yeah I dont even compare to the US - I think they are in their own class of worst.
But a comparison with other european countries can be made easier.
Yeah, US definitely a different beast.
I still think Sweden is among the very best countries to live in. In Europe and even in the world.
