I originally signed up for lemmy about six months ago due to becoming outraged over reddit’s continual coddling of hard right and fascist powermods that use their authority to harass.

It was good here at lemmy.world for a long while until I started getting harassed by a 12 day old right leaning mod in /politics.

I posted a thread here about what to do and even got back a response from the site operator.

Which was shortly followed by a PM my thekingoflorida (the site operator) scolding me and threatening action for calling out the mods bad behavior in threads.

Reading the wind I realized lemmy.world is heading down the shitshow path that so many other online social forums have become and immediately deleted my account.

@thekingoflorida I do not want you to respond, I don’t care about your opinion, and if the fucking software would let me block you, I would have already.

So in short, I’m looking for a lemmy instance that has zero right wing users with admins that actually want to keep right wing forum manipulation off of their platform. I don’t care about ‘the marketplace of ideas’ or fairness in speech that tries to give space to fascist rhetoric in the guise of equality.

EVERY time they worm their ways in and have admin support, it ALWAYS railroads into what ruined reddit. And I’m tired of these shitstains ruining communities that I enjoy.

So, TL;DR: I’m looking for a lemmy instance with ZERO tolerance for anything right of Bill Clinton.

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    Mmm? I don’t remember ever scolding someone. If you feel like I did that was probably me being Dutch. Could you specify what I said that made you angry?

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      Okay, so I read through some of the replies and I think I know what exchange you are referring to (not gonna doxx your ofcourse). I was honestly trying to ascertain if that mod had abused their power. You spammed the accusation through different communities, which is against the rules. I removed those comments, but I was still trying to work with you to investigate that particular mod.

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        Notice how the won’t engage with you at all because the are clearly in the wrong someone hurt their feelings so the broke every rule on the instance throwing a tantrum and are surprised when the get repercussions for it.

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          No I was having brunch, I’ve already replied to every post in this thread.

          Aren’t you the sensitive bombast.

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        You spammed the accusation through different communities, which is against the rules

        Except it isn’t?

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    11 months ago

    If you don’t want drama, you probably shouldn’t be calling people out by name.

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        It really is. I don’t think you’ll be happy on any instance. You’re here making a one day old alternate account to stir up drama, and name call. That’s dramatic behavior. I think that’s just who you are.

        Any instance you go to no, matter how left-leaning, there will be some conflict, because people disagree sometimes, and you are not equipped with the appropriate social conflict handling skills to process that and fit-in.

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          It really isn’t.

          I asked ‘What are some left leaning lemmy instances’

          You answered: Don’t make drama.

          And now you are pretending you provided an answer.

          Any instance you go to no, matter how left-leaning, there will be some conflict

          I don’t care about conflict, I care about right wing activist mods using their power to harass and shape conversation.

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            Your post was more detailed than just ‘show me a list of left leaning Lemmy instances’… because you could self serve that with https://lemmyverse.net/

            How I read your post:

            I used to like it here, but then people started making drama with me, then the admin started making drama with me. I want to find an instance where there won’t be any drama, tell me where I can go to a place where nobody will disagree with me.

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              tell me where I can go to a place where nobody will disagree with me.

              Start your own private instance and federate with no one. Nobody will disagree with you.

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              tell me where I can go to a place where nobody will disagree with me.

              I hear there’s a site called read it that will cater to those needs if he’s curious

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                  Asks the person, telling me I’m arguing when all I did was make a shitty joke in reply to something someone else said as a strawman comment?

                  Yes. Yes I am.

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              because you could self serve that with

              1. Never heard of that site before so your assumption is pretty unwarranted.

              2. Only 2 sites show up with the ‘leftist’ tag, one is for tankies and the other is for people in the midwest. I am neither of these.

              How I read your post:

              I’m not responsible for your baises or reading comprehension issues. I asked a question, gave the reason why I was asking it, and you chose to go off on an unrelated tangent about drama. And for some reason the mods seem to think that Rule 8 doesn’t apply to you.

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                I appreciate you giving context for your question, that allowed us to have a richer discourse about making you happy in the long term.

                The reason context is important, is so that we can see the meta question around the actual question.

                As far as the rule 8 relevancy discussion goes, I believe every one of my comments here has been a good faith and attempt to be extremely relevant to your concern. We can disagree about that, but I don’t wish you to be moderated out of the discussion

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                  Your initial reply wasn’t even close to an attempt to answer my question, pretend to be civil all you want I know what your kind is like.

                  but I don’t wish you to be moderated out of the discussion

                  Yes and that was exactly the form of site operator supported harassment took, so I don’t want to participate in a lemmy instance that has a site operator with a willingness to support right wing activist mods.

                  In 2015 when reddit was gearing up for its great fascist expansion, I saw these signs and called them out to mods, users, and admins, and UNIVERSALLY the response was quite similar to yours: ‘why are you causing drama?’

                  Now look what that fucking site is like.

                  And for some reason you are confused why me finding that lemmy.world is rapidly heading in that direction already would be frustrating.

                  Look, thanks for the list to the lemmyverse search, but other than that my time with you has been a sad waste of electrons. You just forwarded the heat death of the universe by a tiny increment with your non-answer.

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            Beehaw… they’re practically a separate platform at this point. A left oriented oriented echo chaimber if you will.

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    the communist tankie ones are lemmygrad and hexbear and to a significantly lesser extent lemmy.ml. I consider hexbear super authoritarian tankies and not really abiding by the socialist ideology most of the time.

    Someone else mentioned Beehaw which is an instance that is all about being polite. Iirc they defederated from lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works.

    Your username is fuck lemmy, pretty agro stance to start imo. Best of luck

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      I made this user account as a throwaway specifically after the instance admin actively supported am activist mod that was repeatedly harassing me, it was supposed to be fuck_lemmy.world but apparently you can’t use punctuation in usernames.

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      I consider hexbear super authoritarian

      Ok then they’re off the list. I appreciate the context, other users replied with just the name. Their community list was giving me massive red flags so I’m glad you were able to comment on that

      Someone else mentioned Beehaw

      So far I think that’s going to be my choice. Submitted my application about 20 mins ago.

      Your username is fuck lemmy, pretty agro stance to start imo. Best of luck

      My original deleted username was nothing like this. I made the username as a throwaway to express my frustration with lemmy.world’s site admin.

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        From what I’ve seen, I sincerely think you’ll like it at Beehaw. They’re an ok bunch of progressive folks who refuse to let it become a nazi bar. I can get behind that. Have fun!

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          You are probably right about the fit, made an application for an account and we’ll see how it goes

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            Just a heads up - beehaw are liberals at best (with the whole “faux civility” bs, and from my experience, an odd tolerance for tankies), not leftists.

            I agree with others that blahaj is a good bet, I’m on kbin myself, and have not had problems with the instance (individual users sure, but I just report where I can and block), so maybe give it a look too (kbin also has other instances like lemmy does, but I’ve not looked in to any of them yet)

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              I feel as soon as my application for blahaj is approved that I will be mainly there though I made kbin and beehaw logins just in case.

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      That’s not actually what’s going on here but I understand why your limited reading comprehension leads you to that assumption.

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    I want to give my side of the story.

    I removed one of person’s comment on the political community because it was reported, from what I can recall, it was a very long, borderline QAnon level rant that was antagonizing other users for essentially not buying into their conspiracy theory, which we took very seriously here.

    This person was not even banned, and the modlog can confirm that.

    I have had literally zero interaction with this person in any form other than this single comment removal. I have never sent this person a single DM or reply, and I think our admins can confirm that.

    When I woke up the next morning, I saw 4 already removed reply to my comments from this person, and it appears that this person has already purged their own account.

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    lemmy.blahaj.zone sounds like a good fit for you. It’s an instance predominately set up as a refuge for trans people, but accepts anyone respectful. The admins defederate from anything offensive which keeps it a safe place for people who need it. I’m not trans but basically signed up here because I feel the same as you, I come here to unwind before bed and want to avoid inflammatory shit. It’s a great little community.

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      lemmy.blahaj.zone

      Its funny but it seems like the trans community has some of the best no-hate zones, thanks for the suggestion and you are the first one to make it for that site.

      Going to check it out now.

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    I don’t know shit about kingoflorida but I’m currently stuck in this neo fascist state and I sure as hell am doing what I can to fix it… consider my vote his anti vote!

    Edit: One day folks will learn that tolerance cannot include intolerance… intolerance will spread like cancer and choke the life out of freedom.

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      Tolerance was and remains a peace treaty: you be tolerant, and we’ll tolerate you. Once someone opts to break the treaty, they receive no further protection from it.

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      I appreciate it, and hope the site admin gets their head out of their ass before this place becomes unsalvageable

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          There is a user account that is known as the ‘instance operator’, it is the default first site admin created on install.

          It’s the best analogy to a ‘site owner’ as far as I can see.

          Lemmy.world’s instance operator is thekingoflorida, for example.

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              That’s really funny because when I spoke to you about emailing info.lemmy.world, you spoke in the first person.

              Also I asked you not to reply to the thread it seems you just can’t not be a raging asshole, can you?

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        Don’t worry about that you and your alts are banned. I didn’t ban this account yet so you can answer if it is ok to post your conversation with thekingoflorda here.

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          I don’t have any alts, and as mentioned earlier I don’t plan on hanging around any longer than it takes to fully explore the alternatives.

          You can give all the space and protection to fascists you feel like without my presence getting in the way by calling it out.